3-Some’s: Yay or Nay

3-Some’s: Yay or Nay

I’ve always wanted to do a 3-some, two girls and a guy of course. I feel like having a three some is like going to get your teeth cleaned at the dentist… everyone has done it! There are some factors that I don’t get about how to orchestrate one though. I always hear that they just happen randomly. That worries me a bit. I’m ready to get blood work performed and people are still having sex randomly smh. Ummm yea that’s not safe at all!The hardest thing has been trying to find a woman who isn’t loose and who is discrete. Does such a woman exist? I mean from what I’ve been seeing she doesn’t. Everyone always has something up their sleeve. I talk to my mother about it and the next day she went to church to pray for my soul. She doesn’t understand how I could even think about another woman joining me and my man in the bedroom. She said it is a big no no but I disagree with her. Even my big sis said she isn’t feeling it. She said that she would be too jealous if her man made the other woman holler louder then her lmao. I respect that but I love to try new things. I feel like you can’t really judge a situation you have never been in. Some say it will break up my relationship when other say it would add to it. I don’t think about any of that stuff. I just want to have some fun. Women are so sexy so why not.

Having sex with a female is apart of my culture. I think it is super sexy especially with a man on looking you. I say it all the time; I guess I’m just a different type of women. I figured if my man isn’t complaining about it then why not give it a try? Share your 3some stories with me. I’m eager to know your outcomes.

© 2011, Geri C. All rights reserved.

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    JC Jul 20 2011 - 4:26 am Reply

    You know what you wanna do. Go for it. People are always going to talk about people who are DOING thangs anyway, So don't tell anyone.

    May I suggest you minimize your risk by seeking out a married, swinging couple where the female is curious too.
    You can go to a swingers party to "see" for yourself before you partake… LOL

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    Anonymous Jul 26 2011 - 8:31 pm Reply

    jd says ya if something i always wanted to try been looking for the rite ma to do it wit is there anyone out there whose ready jdub1jdub@hotmail.com

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    FB Buddy Dec 1 2011 - 1:57 pm Reply

    I say yay, I guess I’m one of the fortunate ones that have had the opportunity to have a 3 some. Just like you said, you don’t really want to do this with any random person with all that going around these days. I was lucky enough to have this happen with two women I knew for years. It was crazy how it all went down. One day the light bulb just hit me. I was on my computer surfing the net and I had that ah ha moment, I know two women that are bi-sexual, and both were into me. I asked both of them would they be interested in having a 3 some. What do I have to loose. They both said yes. So I introduced them to each other. They got to know each other over a period of time. I don’t know if they hooked up before we had our 3 some or not. We eventually hooked up and it was worth every moment. Seeing them interact with each other and sharing the moment was epic. So I highly suggest you try this to curve your curiosity.

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    SC Jan 14 2012 - 8:03 pm Reply

    I’d say Nay. Ive done several 3 ways that went very well. It was with my girlfriend at the time and her good friend. We had blast sexploring one another and them with each other. The issues began outside the bedroom. She became very insecure afterwards and questioned my loyalty to her. Although it was an invigorating experience, I lost a great relationship with a great woman.

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    Sassy Jan 25 2014 - 11:19 pm Reply

    I say yay. Just don’t do it with a boyfriend or a girlfriend (emotional rollercoaster)! I say find a guy and a gal that you are attracted to and have no strings attached or emotional bonds, make sure they are current on health (disease free) negative status and can show proof or maybe make it a date going to go get tested. I know you’re saying “all of that is too much” I feel if you are going to do something that is risky and may kill you in the long run, then you should do the research and take the time to care before you share.

    After you have done the important task of getting tested, don’t plan the moment, let it happen naturally. Be in a comfortable setting with good food, spirits and music (also, candles, massage oils and toys).. maybe play an adult game to get it started.

    Geri C, I just met you and just started reading your column, so, if you haven’t done it already, do it to get it out of your system. Good luck on finding that discreet and not loose woman and a man that can handle your sexual appetite.

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